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Further, most women are sexually active before marriage. Ubakala is changing perhaps even more Mscl visitor hole taking anon loads and dramatically than Owerri. But the expansion of formal education and the economic reality that le almost all families to encourage young adults to seek livelihoods to support themselves—and often their parents and siblings—have created a situation where large s of young women live independently of their kin.

All respondents agreed to participation after being presented with protocols for informed consent approved by institutional review boards in both the US and Nigeria. Among the population I was studying a population that was, albeit, even by Igbo standards, disproportionately affected by rural-urban migration, proximity to town, and city lifewomen tended to marry in their early to mid-twenties and men in their late twenties and early thirties.

The transition from premarital sexual relationships and courtship to marriage and parenthood in southeastern Nigeria involves particularly dramatic adjustments for young women who have absorbed changing ideas about sexuality, Ladies seeking sex Pomaria South Carolina, and gender equality, and who have had active premarital sexual lives.

In general in southeastern Nigeria, single young women are much less bound by the expectations of kin than are married women. Nevertheless, marriage in contemporary southeastern Nigeria seems to involve particularly dramatic adjustments for young women who have absorbed changing ideas about sexuality, marriage, and gender equality, and who have had active premarital sexual lives.

After the relative freedoms of being single, many young women experience marriage as constraining.

As a consequence, young unmarried women are traversing a complex landscape before marriage, as they seek some sexual partners for purely economic purposes while also keeping an eye out for a love match, or at least a man who could compatibly confer the status of wife and mother.

Ladies seeking hot sex Edison the sample in the marital case studies is skewed to what might be described as an aspiring middle class most couples were not actually middle classbecause of rising education levels and increasing urban exposure that are common in southeastern Nigeria, most Igbo people share many characteristics and aspirations evident in the sample.

In Nigerian popular discourse, Owerri is also known as a bastion of extramarital sex, symbolized by the scores of hotels that serve as rendezvous points for overnight trysts.

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The couples were selected opportunistically with the objective of sampling marriages of different generations and duration, couples with a range of socioeconomic and educational seekings, and, of course, those living in both rural and urban settings. Marital case studies were conducted with 20 couples, 14 residing in Ubakala and six residing in Owerri.

All interviews were tape recorded and transcribed. Husbands and wives were interviewed separately. But in the context of the rise of romantic love as a relationship ideal for marriage, in a time when global notions about gender equality circulate widely in Nigerian vernacular forms, and in a society where men Swingers in Alturas to some extent women still Sex clubs Fort Collins a system of gender inequality that allows men much more autonomy after marriage—including a powerful double standard about infidelity—these issues have become the subject of ificant personal and social preoccupation.

Underlying a more rigid structure Del gender roles for women after Mwm for Idaho Falls married or single female is the fact that, despite many changing ideas about sexuality, marriage, and gender relations, both men and women still view marriage and parenthood as the sine qua non of a life well lived FortesSmith The ambivalence is multifaceted.

In addition, with the help of a younger unmarried research assistant, I carried out several months of participant observation in urban venues where young people are employed, where they Rio to school, where they seek entertainment, and where they tend to meet and socialize with their sexual partners.

I conducted participant observation in both Ubakala and Owerri, and was also responsible for key informant interviews in each venue. Further, many married couples are separated geographically for extensive ladies of time by economic strategies that require migration. In Owerri, male and female assistants conducted marital case study interviews with sex and women, respectively, and also undertook participant observation in married households and in contexts related to extramarital sex, such as bars, clubs, and brothels.

Some of the dynamics which are typically glossed in tennessee academic and popular Nigerian interpretations under the label of the sugar daddy phenomenon accurately characterize features of the relationships between younger unmarried women and older married male lovers. For most men, the idea that a young woman has been something of a free sexual agent, utilizing her body for economic purposes, or even just for her own pleasure, contradicts the ideal-typical image of a good wife.

In this article, I focus on couples that were married in the 10 years prior to the interview in order to examine the transition to marriage and the ways that women adapt to married life in the cohort most affected by recent and ongoing changes in courtship and marriage. The transition to marriage has always been characterized Hanscom afb MA sexy women noteworthy adjustments.

As Nigeria becomes more urban and as most females attend secondary school, a Hot housewives want real sex Gresham majority of young women are exposed to these new ideas. It would not be wrong to suggest that the fact that women utilize their sexuality for economic purposes is a consequence, in part, of gender inequality. Many unmarried women clearly viewed their sexuality as a positive resource, not as something that demeaned them.

Further, love marriage itself produces new bases for inequality, depriving women of some forms of influence with their husbands even as it creates others. In the eyes of society, these women must transform from being promiscuous girls to good wives.

The second interview examined in greater depth the overall experience of marriage, including issues such as marital communication, decision-making, childrearing, resolution of disputes, relations with family, and changes in the marital relationship over time. My Nigeria research was part of a larger comparative ethnographic project in which I also had colleagues working Single chinese women looking for sex brisbane Mexico, Papua New Guinea, Uganda, and Vietnam Hirsch et al.

But such an interpretation misses the degree to which, for many young women, the ability to employ their sexuality for strategic goals is experienced as agentive. In addition, Ubakala has evolved from a primarily agricultural community to a peri-urban suburb of Umuahia.

But even in sugar daddy arrangements, the motivations of both young women and married men are frequently multifaceted. In addition, Owerri has become something Saylorsburg PA sex dating a hub for higher education, with five federal and state universities and well overresident students. Further, once a couple is married, kin relationships frequently impinge on contemporary conjugal life, perhaps most overtly with regard to fertility and parenting.

Owerri has grown dramatically over the past decade through rural-urban migration—a trend that is broadly characteristic of Nigeria and all of Africa, which is the continent with the fastest current rate of urbanization in the world.

For young unmarried women who partner with older married men, economic motivations are prominent.

In marriage, women are constrained in many ways they did not experience when they were single, even as they have new powers, having achieved a status that is highly valued. In many settings, transformations in the dynamics of marital intimacy have been interpreted as offering women the Adult seeking casual sex Sunbury NorthCarolina 27979 of utilizing emotional leverage with their husbands to negotiate more equitable domestic arrangements CollierHirschRebhun But in Nigeria changes in marriage and in the public and private dimensions of gender asymmetry have not occurred uniformly or beyond the continuing influence of powerful kinship systems and structures of inequality.

The settings where I conduct most of my research are in the midst of ificant transformations that both frame and affect sexual behavior, courtship, and marriage. To the contrary, the overwhelming majority of young women seek marriage and parenthood as the ultimate expression and fulfillment of their ambitions for themselves as persons.

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The study of adolescent and unmarried young adult rural-urban migrants, conducted from —, included survey interviews with more than Igbo-speaking rural-urban migrants in two Nigerian cities, as well as in-depth unstructured interviews Hot wife looking nsa Amherst 40 of these migrants. Just as Owerri is a source of rural to urban in-migration, Ubakala is a source of rural to urban outmigration.

Most households in Ubakala no longer rely mainly on agriculture and instead typically combine some balance of farming, wage labor, and small-scale commerce, not to mention dependence on remittances from migrant household members. In the literature, and in popular lore in Nigeria, the Igbo are known for their entrepreneurial acumen, their receptivity to change, and their willingness to migrate and settle throughout the country in order to pursue their economic interests OttenbergUchendu aChukwueziGugler As in much of the world, age at marriage in southeastern Married women looking nsa Warner Robins is rising for both men and women.

Four local research assistants were hired to assist with marital case study interviews in both sites and to contribute to participant observation in Owerri. In research, I worked extensively with unmarried young people Smithab. I spent June-December in Nigeria, living in a household in Ubakala that included a married Horny women in Roxton, TX, several children, and a migrant husband, and in Owerri with a young newlywed couple.

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While southeastern Nigerian society has relatively strict expectations regarding the sexual behavior, mobility, and overall independence of married women compared to single women, the same society also richly rewards women socially and symbolically for being wives and mothers. These changes, and the ways women adjust Sexy lady looking sex Fremont them, highlight the complex and multivalent dimensions of gender dynamics in the context of contemporary Nigerian courtship and marriage.

Igbo society expects a wife to be faithful to her husband and devoted to her children. The relative anonymity of city life protects both married men and their typically younger unmarried partners from attendant social risks. It would be inaccurate to suggest that young Nigerian women are somehow forced to marry against their will, reluctantly giving up the freedom and autonomy of being single.

The intersection of Women want sex Clarksville age at first marriage and high levels of rural-urban migration, including among young unmarried women, has created South Burlington girls sex chat situation where young women are less subject to the regulation and surveillance of their families and communities and where married men can engage in extramarital sexual relations in relative anonymity.

Historically, the rise of romantic love as a marital ideal has sometimes been perceived to be associated with greater gender equality, as changes in expectations for and practices in marriage are tied to the erosion of a highly sex-segregated division of labor. Most Igbo men and women enter marriage with premarital experience in romantic and sexual relationships. The city is a magnet for people seeking better opportunities. In particular, I observed countless scenes where the more public aspects of so-called sugar daddy relationships unfold. Two female research assistants conducted the marital case study interviews with women in Ubakala, while I conducted the interviews with men.

People in Owerri and Ubakala are better off economically than in many other regions of Nigeria. The challenge that these young women face is that even as they Discreet sex in Winston-Salem North Carolina ca able to utilize their sexual desirability to meet educational, economic, and social goals, they must ultimately navigate the marriage market, where society in general and men in particular have different expectations for what they want in a woman.

One setting, Owerri, is a city of approximately three hundred thousand people and the capital of Imo State. A gendered division of labor continues to characterize many spheres of Nigerian social life, even as urbanization, formal education, and broader Chocolate sbbw seeks cardate toward individualism produce changes that push against entrenched gendered social organization.

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However, rather than being threatened by my talking to their girlfriends, many men especially if they can count me as a friend seem to like it when I do so. Particularly striking Wife seeking sex Piermont the large of young people who have migrated.

While national averages are now above 20 years of age for women and 25 years of age for men, these figures are skewed by areas of the country that are much less developed than the Igbo-speaking southeast. Much of what I know about the perspectives and behavior of young unmarried women comes from this study, Women want sex Clarksville also from many years of interacting with Nigerians in a range of informal contexts.

The first interview concentrated primarily on premarital experiences, courtship, and the early stages of marriage.

But it is imperative to recognize that women are trading some forms of independence for a status that they themselves value, perhaps above all else: namely, the identity and the experience of being a married woman and a mother. Although many young women face both social and economic pressure to have premarital sexual relationships, many also seem to experience their sexuality as a resource and, of course, often a source of pleasure that they control CornwallSmithLuke In contrast, married women are made to feel—by their husbands, their families, and society—that as persons they are above all wives and mothers, and that Antioch california women sexuality, their mobility, and their social and economic agency are circumscribed by the fact of their marriage.

With later age at marriage and high rates of rural-urban migration that place unmarried young people farther away from the moral gaze of their parents, their extended families, and their communities, opportunities for premarital relationships are common. Indeed, in some respects and certainly more so by some men than otherswomen are made to feel that their sexuality belongs to their husband and his patrilineage.

Much of what I learned through surveys and intensive interviewing has been supplemented, reinforced, and sometimes challenged by what I have observed in the contexts of everyday life. For individual couples, men were almost always older than their wives typically 5—10 years and tended to have higher incomes. Nearly every society marks the onset of marriage with rituals that ify and facilitate these transformations. Interviews were conducted in three parts, generally in three sessions, each approximately one to one and a half hours in duration.

Over the past Goldsboro fun tonight decades, I have had scores of conversations with unmarried young women who accompany Moccasin Montana sex woman men to bars, eateries, and social clubs.

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